How to understand women

Steve Hawking said understanding women is harder than understanding black holes. But in fact, it’s not that hard. You just need to a little guidance to look into the right way.

Remember I said: relatives can be represented by characters? For women, Authority represents male lover. To be specific, if Judge and Slaughter appear together, Judge represents husband and Slaughter represents lover.

Originally, Authority means the code overcome the self code. Therefore it represents things that give you pressure such as a boss, order, police, government, enemy, authorities, mission, shame, guilt, etc... Judge press the self code with different charges. Different charges attract each other like the two sexes, therefore Judge represents pressure with love. Slaughter against you in same charge, therefore it represents ruthless pressure. Slaughter makes people military material, because discipline is what military is about. Judge represents husband and Slaughter represents lover because we assume people always love their husbands more.

Traditionally, Judge is considered the most important character for women. The most obvious reason might be: in ancient China, it is legal to have concubines, so rich men usually have more than one wives. Judge represents politics; women have to be good at politics in such situation. Otherwise, you can imagine what a mess a family might be.

Now a day, it is still a good idea to find your wife by the ancient rule, because unfortunately, love will fade away. When the love is not there, what is the strongest thing to maintain your marriage? The answer is: the responsibility of the woman. Why woman? Because: Women are hosts of love. In a relationship, men propose ideas, women make the decisions. Therefore when a family is broken, wife makes the final call. Let me put it this way: men instinctively want to please all women in his sight, women need to be with the men and let the love grow. This means men are shallow animal. It also means men’s love towards women is less conditional. Woman won’t fall in love with any men; she needs reason to love a man, what if the reason is not there anymore? Judge makes people respect and willing to follow rules. When love is not there, do you still want to honor your promise? It depends on the sense of responsibility.

All romantic men are romantic in the same way, but there are actually two kinds of romantic women: some are good at being in love, and some are too romantic to accept a guy. Sometimes it’s hard to understand why some pretty and nice women have such a hard time showing affection, the secret is: since Authority represents lovers, Woman with Authority in place is never lack of wooers, no matter she is very hot or not.

Marilyn Monroe born June 1, 1926 9:20 am

Judge	Gourmet		Gourmet
3	10	8	10
(3)	(6)	(10)	(6)
Collector	Judge	Comrade	Judge

Marilyn Monroe is the symbol of sex. She was sexy not because her look was perfect. Her charm was brought by Judge, however, three Judges are too many considering it represents husband. I mean, husband is not the more the better, you don’t need three husbands to be happy.

Audrey Hepburn was born on May 4 1929

Comrade	Pirate
6	5	6
(6)	(5)	(10)
Guardian	Pirate	Gourmet

Audrey Hepburn was regarded by many to be the most beautiful woman in the world. She was elegant, but she’s not hot, and her love life wasn’t a good one, because she has no Authority but all the opposite of Authority: Strength and Talent.

Unlike Yin is the opposite of Yang, and Yang is the opposite of Yin. One character or element has two opposite. Because there are 5 set of characters like a five pointed star. For one point, there are two points on the opposite side. Authority overcome Strength, Talent overcome Authority, so we say Strength and Talent are both on the opposite side of Authority. And it makes sense: Ego and rebellion spirit are the two things against obedience and regulation. Why pretty girls can’t find love? Because they have too much Strength and Talent.

Elizabeth I was born on 7 September 1533

Gambler	Gourmet
10	8	6
(6)	(10)	(2)
Guardian	Gourmet	Comrade

Queen Elizabeth 1st of England is called the Virgin Queen, because allegedly, she never had sex despite the wealth and status she had. She had not only two Gourmets in a column but also (6), (10) and (2) merged and become Metal as Talent. Talent is the natural enemy of Authority. With Talent so powerful, even she had Authority in the hour column, it cannot survive.

What does Talent do? Well, Talent makes people proud, optimistic and likes to dream. If you like to dream, of course you are an optimist. When we dream, we don’t think about bad things, we picture awesome scenarios and feel good about ourselves. If you fall in love with your dream, you rise the standard for your requirement in reality. Furthermore, because Talent overcomes Authority, Talent makes people conceited and contemptuous, thinking: I’m smarter than you.

In my opinion, Talent represents romantic in its true meaning. Talent is dream and spiritual desire. Talent support Money that represents lover to men, it against Authority that represents lover to women. So being too proud won’t jeopardize men’s chance to get women, but it is the thing that makes women cannot find men for them.

Judie Forster born 1962 / 11 / 19 8:14 am

Rebel	Comrade		Rebel
9	8	8	9
(3)	(12)	(10)	(5)
Collector	Rebel	Comrade	Guardian

Everybody knows Judie Forster is proud, high self-esteem woman who never found love from men. She has no Authority at all; on the other hand, she has super strong Rebel. So she can’t bring herself to awe anyone. To be a wife, you need to have the emotion of awe. This is not machismo; this is suggested by fortune telling theory, an ancient, neutral theory which is not designed to prove any arguments.

I almost forgot to answer the question: how to understand women. Here goes.

Everybody say men can’t understand women. One thing men don’t understand about women is: why women like to be attractive, but you will almost certainly be rejected if you approach them in an honest way? There is a social experiment shows when a hot guy asking strange girls for sex directly, he will get a success rate of about one percent; however, when a hot girl asking strange guys for sex directly, the success rate will be about 50 percent.

I saw women nude and write “Still not asking for it” on the body. The message is clear, they mean: I being sexy doesn’t mean I want you. Then men would be like: what do you mean? Sex is between man and woman, you are not attracting me, who else reason you want to be attractive? I have a need; you have a need, why do we have to play the game?

Please pay attention to the answer: Indeed women need love too, but men and women’s love are different. To men, wife is represented by Money. What is Money? Money means “I overcome”. So when a men fall in love with a woman, the mentality is obsession, possession. Women’s love is represented by Authority. Authority is the thing against us. It is the feeling not easy to accept. I mean: do you want to meet your boss all the time, even your boss is the best boss?  People resist pressure naturally. This is why women’s attitude toward love is longing as well as resistance. To women, the taste of love is not sweet, but coffee. I mean nobody love coffee naturally. You need to get use to that taste. In fact, Men are in the situations that facing pressure from above, too. So it’s totally understandable. You just don’t relate that feeling to love, right? If a man has heavy Authority, he’s almost like the opposite of romantic. Do you think rigorous man is romantic? For women, love is Authority. This is the key to understand anything you don't understand about women.